dear andrea,

 have you ever read a book that was so frustrating you just had to put it down?

how many other things have you put down because it was too hard, quitter?

spanking is frowned upon but tough love is glorified every day

"hardens the spirit" "tightens you up" 

military. rigid. rules. regulations.

these things are helpful, yes.

but...for love, y'all? 😂

i'm sofuckin weak

if you are militant with your love,

they will never love you back.

because

you can never

ever

ever

ever

evber

everggtegt

force 

someone

to 

lvoe you

it's impossible

but we try every single day.

it's okay if they don't love you

you're you and that's them.

you don't need them.

because you have you.

you ARE you. 

don't listen to what they say.

just keep singing that song you like.