if you treat someone like an outsider, that's exactly what they become.
pointing fingers feels extremely counter-productive.
i'm not going to sit here and say "my parents raised me a certain way so that's why i am the way i am"
because that phrase
is literally
true
for
everyone.
if that phrase is literally true for everyone,
why would anyone
ever
get mad at their parents?
go make something cool instead.
no one wants to hear you complain.
